Wednesday, October 24, 2018

Bangkok in Pictures













Shameless shopping







All for 250 THB!


#OFWWoes: How to Stay Busy in AUH

Homesick? Bored? Ngangey (me at least 3 weeks before my bi-annual vacay)?!

Being an OFW in UAE for almost 6 years, it's normal to have a basic routine of work-home-part time or party every other weekend (for the younger ones) with serious bouts of homesickness in between. Like me, for example, I never had an issue with being alone. I'm an expert in entertaining myself with books, random coffee hangouts, etc. but there are times that you can't help but long for the familiarity of home, missing your fights with parentals and the never-ending social activities you set up for yourself with your friends.

During my first year I was totally in my element as a loner. Honestly, I don't make friends easy - it usually takes me 6 months to a year to warm up to somebody, but I was totally fine with it. Quality vs quantity anytime anyway ~ which paid off in the end because who I made friends with in 2013 were still my close friends up to this day. It's inevitable eventually, that you get to create a makeshift family and support system that you make weekend & holiday plans with ~ which could totally save you during times of personal crisis. They may be nosy, they may have totally different (or agreeable) opinions on politics or religion but in the end, they can be your emergency contact, on-call mover, potential job network and sounding board so be thankful (ok ok #sepanx dahil I just moved out T_T miss you friends!!!)

WHAT CAN YOU DO TO STAY BUSY?

Currently, I'm based in Abu Dhabi but for my first 2 years, I was originally based in Dubai. It's a big adjustment though, because Dubai feels more like a city even if Abu Dhabi is actually UAE's capital (it's the skyscrapers). Abu Dhabi is more laidback however people here tend to sleep earlier ~ or you just see less people in the streets by 9PM on a weekday. In Dubai, you can still find people eating a shawarma, taking walks by the creek or doing last minute shopping till wee hours in the morning.

Comparisons aside, you will definitely find a lot of things to keep you sane and busy in both cities if you just know where to look. In Abu Dhabi, you just have to pick up a random free issue of Abu Dhabi World to get updated on what's happening or any free activities the city has in store. Previously I wrote about scoring access to a one-man play in NYU AD -  and just last week we were able to participate in the Yas Movies in the Park (Day 2) for the Mamma Mia Immersive Experience! Both events are free entry btw, you only have to register ahead of time. Such a fun fun night ~ great music + excellent company + freebies = YEYYYY!!!




The month before, we registered for the ADSC (Abu Dhabi Sports Council) Indoor Run which was held at Ferrari World Abu Dhabi (Yas Mall). However, this event was not free (2.5K, 5K and 10K were all for 50 AED/person only) but you'll have free entry to Ferrari World and medals! Plus, the atmosphere was so positive, we just had to sign up for the next event and we were able to complete the 5K within the allotted time! #BUCKETLIST!!




If you're into more activities within the city, you can take a stroll in the newly-opened A'l Bahar in Corniche. The theme is La Mer slash Delma Park but with video arcades. You can also join a meetup group, attend classes at The Filipino Institute to upgrade your skills (or learn new ones) or go skating along the corniche. The possibilities are endless!

There are definitely too many things or activities you can do here to while away the time, or just to enjoy yourself and your family / friends. Being away from your loved ones sa pinas can take a toll on you, and work is stressful enough - to beat yourself up by staying holed up in your room/ partition/bed, letting life pass you by. We work hard here for the sake of providing a good life for our families back home - that we owe it to ourselves to actually live our own lives as well, to keep ourselves fit and healthy, to expand and enrich our minds, culturally and spiritually.

Yun lang, have fun - stay humble and till the next post!

Thursday, October 4, 2018

Pamamanhikan


From the word panik which means to ascend or to climb a house's flight of stairs, pamamanhikan is "the asking for the girl's parents' permission to wed the affianced pair." This Filipino custom symbolizes honor and respect for the parents, seeking their blessing and approval before getting married. Kasal.com

Saturday, September 29, 2018

#WearLaurel in UAE: Wear Happiness On Your Head!



Isn't she the cutest??!!

Get your own designer stretch head wraps for your little ladies by visiting the pages below:

Laurel & Co. UAE (Instagram)
Laurel & Co. UAE (Facebook)

Now, if you're on your vacay sa Pinas, don't fret! You can still order by going to the links below, and grab the latest T-bar designs while you're at it!

http://shoplaurel.co/
Laurel & Co.

Make your little babes' milestones more special and IG-ready with these chic finds :) Happy shopping!

Monday, May 21, 2018

Moving Week 2018


Sa wakas natuloy din!

After 2 1/2 years, finally moved to a roomier and much more adult-friendly space, still along Airport Road :) and right before Ramadan and Jawda audits! Quotaaaaa na beshie!

#kapoytodamaxxxx

Also starting to plan our annual out of town trip later this Nov ~ to Bacolod! Sooo excited to taste authentic chicken inasal, do a DIY prenup shoot at The Ruins (Talisay) and hoping against hope to visit Manjuyod Sandbar (Dumaguete sidetrip). Will require major major creative accounting skillzzz to pull this off but with extreme dieting and budgeting techniques - I think we can do dizzzz! :P

See you soon pinas! Can't wait! #ItsMoreFunInDaPilipins

Saturday, January 20, 2018

NYE Blues

It's Jan 20th already and I've been making no progress on all my "expected goals" for this year. I know I should've had a list by now but I feel like I've been too negative for the past months that all I can think of are badvibe-y things that just makes me feel meeeeeh.

I AM thankful that I've been beyond blessed this 2017, but it's just that there are certain people who can take all that away with their "Eh di wows" and "Sige lang a." It's as if whatever good you do for somebody, whatever goal you achieve or how hard you work, it will never be enough for others to respect nor support you and what you want for yourself. It's as if crab mentality is a hard quality to shake off, specially among those that's within your immediate vicinity. 

Anyway, I don't want to end up eating my feelings so I'm sending these negative vibes out there in the cosmic cybervoid. It's hard enough feeling like you're the contrabida with all these bad thoughts swimming in your head at the same time losing 10kgs and being a good friend to those who actually need you, a daughter, sister and supportive fiancee to the people who truly matter.